You know...whenever someone insults themselves, we're usually pretty quick to stop them. But it's so easy to insult yourself because you ARE your worst critic, and no matter how well someone else knows you, they still can never know EVERYTHING about you but you do, or at least more. So...when you don't have someone to tell you you aren't blah blah and blah, or sometimes even when you do, it really can't help that much. And when someone says just one thing that reminds you of something you've done and aren't proud of, or of something that is a weak spot for you, it sucks because it brings everything about that rushing forward again.